Benji kind of doesn't want to grow up
Sag Harbor is probably the book we've read that talks the most about childhood. Fun Home did discuss childhood but mostly in the context of explaining adult behaviors, and most of the other books we have read have focused on their protagonist's adolescence. By looking back at Beji's childhood so much, Sag Harbor gives us the idea that coming-of-age is not just a series of firsts, it is also a series of lasts. Growing into new things also means growing out of old things. In the very first chapter, Ben sets this tone by mentioning how Reggie no longer wants to bike around the neighborhood with him even though they always had before, saying "It was the last time we'd start the summer that way" (31). This idea goes through the whole book and I think that it can be picked up in a lot of different examples of the way that Benji interacts with his friends and often feels behind. One of the quotes that jumped out to me as exemplifying this ide...